Rosa: Poetical!

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Poetical!

Yes, I shamelessly lifted this from The Nation online.

What Whoopi Goldberg ('Not a Rape-Rape'), Harvey Weinstein ('So-Called Crime') et al. Are Saying in Their Outrage Over the Arrest of Roman Polanski

By Calvin Trillin

A youthful error? Yes, perhaps.
But he's been punished for this lapse--
For decades exiled from LA
He knows, as he wakes up each day,
He'll miss the movers and the shakers.
He'll never get to see the Lakers.
For just one old and small mischance,
He has to live in Paris, France.
He's suffered slurs and other stuff.
Has he not suffered quite enough?
How can these people get so riled?
He only raped a single child.

Why make him into some Darth Vader
For sodomizing one eighth grader?
This man is brilliant, that's for sure--
Authentically, a film auteur.
He gets awards that are his due.
He knows important people, too--
Important people just like us.
And we know how to make a fuss.
Celebrities would just be fools
To play by little people's rules.
So Roman's banner we unfurl.
He only raped one little girl.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...: Next he'll say "I was just playing doctor" that does not wash when you are over 18 years old...

Some are remorseful-- Some- one in my family molested my brother, but he was 14 and my brother much, much younger... he, the molester had the same done to him-- he was in tears.. and my brother was left confuse.. I felt for both of them... the problem.. sorry off topic. Is the family member owned it, took responsibility for it for the most part, although I do think he should have gotten more counseling, because he still has not pointed out the perp-- my bro on the other hand has used this as an excuse to misbehave, and act like an idiot..

He tried the same with me... but it was more curiosity and I can forgive and forget with ease...; Friday, October 16, 2009 8:01:00 PM
Rosa said...: Your experience really shows how confusing/confused childhood and teen sexuality can be when there is a history of abuse. Some people get over it, some people never do. Some people use it as an excuse to do even worse things to others.

I think with this child rapist (Polanski), that he knew what he was doing and he had probably gotten away with it before--and since--I just wish justice had caught up with him sooner.; Friday, October 16, 2009 11:03:00 PM
Anonymous said...: You know that is so strange Rosa, besides it being confusing, that bastard is ... how old? In his 40's 50's?

It wasn't until after my husband (ex-husband) mentally/ and physical abused me that I had issues going to see a GYN.

I get angry, want to run out, throw up... I have no idea why after all those years that horrible marriage brought up all those feelings.. so people like Polanski have no idea, even if we are going along with life happily... that shit NEVER goes away Rosa..

I'm glad you are talking about this, I 'm glad I can comment about it. The cousin situation...we were all kids.. although, still confusing, but there is a massive difference between what the hell those 18 year olds and over.. do... they can't blame anyone but themselves...

I believe people can change, I really do believe this, I've changed myself but when you get repeaters like him, and.... like my idiotic brother who NEVER changes despite how many earth shattering, changing experiences they get or chances... they need to be put AWAY!; Saturday, October 17, 2009 8:15:00 PM
april Marie - Girl Japan said...: opps.. sorry I logged in with a different account...; Saturday, October 17, 2009 8:15:00 PM
Rosa said...: Ugh, Girl. I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you have gotten your life back on track.

Yes, that child rapist Polanski was in his 40's (43, I believe) when he raped a 13 year old. I think because it happened so long ago, people think, gee, he must have been a boy himself! But no, he was a grown ass man, age-wise.

I do also believe that people can change, but it takes time and commitment and work work work. Victims have a different road to recovery than do perpetrators. And I'm personally more inclined to support the victim than the perp!; Sunday, October 18, 2009 11:43:00 AM
Anonymous said...: Victims come first, that is one HUGE reason why I changed my law degree, if, ever the chance I have to practice law here, I don't HAVE to defend a perp...

I changed it to business law... lol I have not even googled his stupid ass yet.... in fear it will enrage me.

Change of subject... is it getting cooler where you are, fall like? Still 80's here, but cold at night.; Sunday, October 18, 2009 10:10:00 PM
Rosa said...: Oh, no! Business law! Then you'll be defending white collar criminals like Bernie Madoff... Oy vey :)

It is getting cooler now. My home is actually on the same latitude as Tokyo, so the weather is almost exactly the same there as here. Fall is coming--YAY! Fall in Japan is so beautiful with the leaves changing color...; Sunday, October 18, 2009 10:34:00 PM

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Personal events will become interesting again.
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Buds that open out of season will become lovely again.
Second-hand gloves will become lovely again,
their memories are what give them
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carved out of such tiny beings as we are
asks to be filled; the need
for the new love is faithfulness to the old.

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Don’t go too early.
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Only wait a while and listen.
Music of hair,
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music of looms weaving all our loves again.
Be there to hear it, it will be the only time,
most of all to hear,
the flute of your whole existence,
rehearsed by the sorrows, play itself into total exhaustion.

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Goodtime Jesus

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Go where the search takes you.

Original: 子曰：“吾十有五而志于学，三十而立，四十而不惑，五十而知天命，六十而耳顺，七十而从心所欲，不逾矩。”

English: Confucius said:”When I was fifteen, I aspired to learn. At thirty, I could be independent. At forty, I am not deluded. At fifty, I knew my destiny. At sixty, I knew truth in all I heard. At seventy, I could follow my heart’s desire without overstepping the line.”

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--Mark Twain

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— Martin Luther

Love casts out fear.

Fail. Fail again. Fail better. --Samuel Beckett

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--Eleanor Roosevelt

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--Michael Jordan

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--Adrienne Rich

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Wednesday, October 14, 2009

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